Fingering is one part of foreplay that is very delicate, being poor at this part of sex can remove any chance of having penetrative sex.
If it’s too shabbily done, then the guy is thrown off the roof. It’s also very touchy of a subject because what works on one lady could blow up in your face with another lady.
To forestall any bad reviews from your performance, here are some things that guys need to know about fingering, compiled by Danielle Page, AskMen.
1. Begin by touching everything asides the vagina itself
When you want to start fingering her, start by not going there directly, dribble around the area. Doing things around the vagina before going there can build up anticipation and arousal. It’s like preparing the place before you eventually get there. While dribbling around her orifice, let foreplay be in motion, like kissing her neck, shoulder, lips and other places.
2. One style won’t work for all
There is no truer statements to this. One size doesn’t fit all. That move that you’ve got won’t help with every single woman. For guys, if a lady sucks or licks, then all is good but for ladies, things are mighty different. For ladies, it can be different, some ladies may like light touch to the clitoris while others may need something with a little bit more pressure. So, what works great for someone else may be a disaster for another.
3. It’s not just fingers in and out
One purpose of fingering is to stimulate the clitoris, one of the best approach is to rub the outside area around the clitoris, this is the approach some women take when touching themselves, who else can you learn from if not from their approach. It feels insanely good, for some ladies penetration sex is nice but if doesn’t include stimulating the clitoris then it’s not really it.
4. Stimulate the clitoris gently
According to women, the people we hope to please, the best approach to the clitoris at first is something really light, a light touch to it. Make sure to keep your touches very delicate, let your fingers glide over it gently.
5. Fingering is more than foreplay
Orgasms for women have not be solely achieved by penetration, it has to be escorted in by clitoris stimulation, according to a study carried out by OMGYes, about 72 percent of women said their clitoris needs to be stimulated for them to reach orgasm which means if you can still do wonders with your hands during sex, it can get better.
